Answer to the question, who has to  Motivation oneself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The term motivation is gotten from the Latin word "emover" which infers 'to move'. Motivation gives answer to certain fundamental inquiries, for example, why and how individuals work and what decides the course of their activities?

Motivation is an inside or outside procedure. It is good to be self motivated than depending on other because motivation is that inner spirit that has to come in one self. Whenever people are in problem they need the support of others to share their feeling and get suggestion but the thing is outsider can give their view, some example and console you and not the real motivation that is needed for life.

There is a saying that Get in to the shoe of others, when we consider this saying to our topic we can say that motivation should be maintain for long time it should not be like a spirit soda I mean sprite of soda,will go with in a minute. One should motivate other that should remain till his/her death. This is what I believe. Thus I can say that the one person who listen to our problem has to motivate in such a way that it should be for life time.

This is my own example that I am coating here that happen in my life. It was during 2009, I and my mother were moving in train to meet my father who was working then in Hassan. Train was full rush. One Muslim family gets into our compartment. They were shouting on children very rudely to leave place for them, they were giving the reason that among them two girls are pregnant. Thus two children vacate their place but among those Muslim family two elders i.e. one pregnant women and another women who was not pregnant sat on seat. When she came to me I dint gave the seat, I argued for why that another aunt sitting there and why can’t you go and sit there. She shouted on me with very slag words and put curse on me like you don’t get pregnant and all. I feel very bad & I vacate my place. After that my mother scolds me for arguing with those people and said it was my mistake. But my mind was not ready to accept this.

At that time one brother called me who was sitting near to my mother, in that time I was crying a lot. He said only one sentence that makes me motivated and teaches me how to face the situation that is “That aunt who scold you knows you only from past one hour and you know about yourself from past fourteen years”. It was an eye opening lesson for all who listen to him.

From that time to present and to till my death I don’t mind for the people who don’t understand a simple common sense and talk meaningless. I don’t like the people who do wrong action and make high dram in public. It was very small Rini who cried for wrong thing but this Rini doesn’t cry anymore, doesn’t give up  and take a right action to make them correct. This my nature help me to prove as right in many situation and taught me a lesson how to deal with the people and how to handle the situation and mainly how to convey our taught to them i mean if i saw any wrong before i was simply arguing with them without having a patience but now by understanding myself better i am able to make understand to people were are going wrong.